Titlebook: Between Love and Hate; A Guide to Civilized Lois Gold Book 1992 Lois Gold 1992 divorce.family.love.psychology.social science.therapy

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Quine and Prior on Quantificationour own self-interests should be the guiding principle. Even though you may disagree with the level of your partner’s stated need or its legitimacy, as in the amount of child or spousal support, you have to be willing to work with the other’s concerns.

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Border Skirmishes Don’t Have to Turn into Nuclear Warly very little was resolved. We consequently either live in secret terror of confrontation or feel prepared to fight at the slightest provocation. Despite our best intentions, we often repeat the patterns of our families in the new families we create.

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Parenting as a Lasting Partnershippast 2, 3, or 23 years. It is not easily set aside. It can suck you in like an undertow, and you won’t even realize it. When you are relating to your former spouse as you did when you were a couple, you behave differently than you do with anyone else. It brings out the worst in you.

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Electrostatic Focusing Systems,When you separate, the last thing you are thinking about is how to maintain a constructive relationship with your partner. You are thinking about how to make the pain go away, how you will survive, how to bring love back—not how to get along. The idea of cooperating with the one person who has caused this pain seems unthinkable.

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On Understanding QuantificationThis chapter is aimed at helping you strengthen your skills as a negotiator. This way you can plan for negotiation sessions and be at your best at these meetings.

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SeparationWhen you separate, the last thing you are thinking about is how to maintain a constructive relationship with your partner. You are thinking about how to make the pain go away, how you will survive, how to bring love back—not how to get along. The idea of cooperating with the one person who has caused this pain seems unthinkable.

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The Seven Keys to a Constructive DivorceYou may be asking yourself how it is possible for two people who were not able to get along well enough to remain married to cooperate and work together on their divorce. Many a skeptical judge has said, “If they could get along so well, they would still be married.” This is a myth.